Getting through

Life is all about getting through...getting through birth, getting through those first months of life, getting through school, getting through dating, getting through engagement...marriage, children...and eventually death.
What about those of us whom are thrown an extra clink in the already rusty stove? How am I supposed to get through all the trials i've already been given...such as children and a husband when I have so much already on my mind. How do you deal with abuse? How do you rid those memories from your sponge brain? One has to learn how to just 'get through' all of it? Somedays I feel this is impossible. Somedays I feel completely free of the bondage i'm in. I guess it all boils down to just getting through it all...